Are you a crier or do you hold things in?

 Do you cry a lot or do you hold your emotions in? I'm a Scorpio so as a water sign, I WILL CRY. I don't feel like Scorpios is as emotional as other water signs like cancers and Pisces. I like to feel any emotion that I'm having though. If my feelings are hurt I'm going to address it and/or cry about it. It doesn't matter who it is or what the situation is. I wear my heart on my sleeve but over the years I've developed to have a tougher skin. Certain experiences with people have put me in situations to keep my guard up because they would run all over me if I didn't. Anyway, back to the topic at hand. As a woman, you're supposed to have emotions and show them. You can develop tough skin and still show emotions. You shouldn't have to be masculine or even shut down completely to where you're not expressing yourself freely. We have to keep people in our lives that let us be us. That includes relationships and friendship as well. Your friends and spouse are the main two that you should be vulnerable with, if you can't do that with them then who can you do it with? If they use your emotions against you instead of hearing why you feel that way then you have a problem and need to switch up your circle. Don't be afraid to scream. Don't be afraid to speak up for yourself. Don't be afraid to cry. Don't be afraid to set boundaries and let people know that you don't like something. Don't just sit quietly and take what people do to you. Don't let people make you nonchalant when really you're a very sweet girl who likes to express yourself. Be you and find your people in this life. Life is too short to short yourself and be uncomfortable just because you're afraid of losing people or being judged. It's one thing to fantasize about the girl you want to be than actually being the girl you dream about. What kind of woman do you see yourself as? A girl who stands up for herself and demands the respect she gives to others? Or do you see yourself as the girl who sits back quietly to avoid conflict no matter how uncomfortable she is in the moment? I expect better from you especially if you're into my blog. Stand firm and remember who you are and who you've always been. The girl with a voice.